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By Margot Rutigliano, CPT, CHC, Pn2 | Founder, Vita Vie Retreat

TACKLE STRESS WITH THESE 25 TIPS

Stress, often referred to as the silent killer, is an inevitable part of our daily lives. It manifests in various forms, whether through financial pressures, relationship challenges, family concerns, or even minor inconveniences like running late for work. Regardless of the cause, stress has a way of permeating our lives, both in significant and subtle ways.

Addressing stress promptly is essential to prevent it from escalating into more serious health issues. The first step is to identify the specific types of stress you are experiencing. This awareness allows you to take proactive steps to eliminate or effectively manage those stressors, safeguarding your well-being. The different types of stress are:

Physical – Injury, illness, sprains and strains are all forms of physical stress.
Emotional – Stress from relationships including spouse, partner, friends and family can all play a part in your emotional stress.
Mental – Mental stress, which can also add to emotional stress, can stem from work, mental abuse, personal challenges and more.
Electromagnetic – Electromagnetic stress is the type of stress that comes from exposure to things like phones, tablets and tv’s. This type of stress can cause sleep disorders, anxiety and more.

I recommend starting by listing all the different types of stress in your life and brainstorming strategies to address each one. To support you in this process, here are 25 effective methods for managing stress that you can put into action right away.

25 WAYS TO FIGHT STRESS

Relax First
Before doing anything else, take a moment to calm yourself. It’s crucial not to panic. Take deep breaths, sit down, and assess the situation. Visualize a peaceful place or think of a beautiful landscape—anything that helps you regain control of your emotions. Recognizing and managing your feelings before they escalate can be a simple yet powerful step.
Flood Your Mind with Positivity
It's easy to fall into a negative mindset. Combat this by actively feeding your mind with positive thoughts. Read inspirational books, spiritual texts, or motivational quotes. Listen to uplifting music or positive recordings to help shift your perspective.
Focus on Gratitude
Concentrate on the positive aspects of your life and practice gratitude for what’s going well. Create a “Blessings Chart” to list everything you are thankful for, from supportive people to the ability to breathe and move.
Consider the Big Picture
Ask yourself, “Is this situation really as bad as it seems?” What seems significant now may not matter as much when viewed in the context of the bigger picture. If you can change the situation, take action; if not, focus on letting go of the need to control it.
Believe in Positive Outcomes
Your beliefs significantly influence your experiences. Cultivate a mindset that things will work out, which fosters a winning attitude and equips you to better manage stress.
Engage in Physical Activity
Exercise can alleviate symptoms of depression and anxiety. Choose activities that are safe and suitable for you—whether it’s walking in nature, kickboxing, or another form of cardio. Pair exercise with proper nutrition to support recovery and well-being.
Practice Forgiveness
Holding onto resentment, whether toward others or yourself, can be a significant source of stress. Practice forgiveness to release the burden of anger and worry.
Take Action
Don't just dwell on what's wrong—think of actionable steps you can take to resolve the issue. Identify your stress triggers and create a plan to address them.
Speak Positively
Negative self-talk can undermine your confidence and motivation. Whenever you catch yourself about to say something negative, pause, take a breath, and reframe your words in a positive light.
Shift Focus to Others
One of the most effective ways to feel better is to shift your focus from yourself to others. Think about how you can help someone else, and then act on it. Doing so can make your own problems seem more manageable.
Limit Caffeine Intake
Excessive caffeine can increase emotional reactivity to stress and disrupt sleep. Find out what amount is right for you to avoid heightened stress levels.
Communicate Effectively
Healthy relationships can relieve stress. Invest time and energy in effective communication with friends, family, or a professional counselor to express what you’re feeling in a safe space.
Listen to Music
Music can be a powerful stress reliever. Create playlists tailored to your moods: uplifting tracks for energy, soothing songs for relaxation, or dynamic tunes for releasing tension.
Eat a Balanced Diet
A healthy diet supports both physical and emotional wellness, reducing stress reactivity. Focus on nutrient-dense foods and minimize sugar and processed foods for optimal well-being.
Incorporate Laughter
Laughter releases tension and induces positive physiological changes. Find ways to incorporate more humor into your day, as it truly can be the best medicine.
Practice Progressive Muscle Relaxation (PMR)
PMR involves tensing and relaxing different muscle groups to release physical tension. Start from your head and work down to your feet. With practice, this technique can help achieve full-body relaxation quickly.
Use Breathing Techniques
Breathing exercises can provide immediate stress relief. Try the 4-7-8 method: inhale through your nose for 4 counts, hold for 7, and exhale through your mouth for 8. Repeat three times for a calming effect.
Garden
Gardening connects you with nature and grounds you, reducing stress. Whether you plant flowers or vegetables, getting your hands in the soil can be therapeutic.
Journal
Writing down your thoughts can help you identify and manage your stress triggers. Journaling allows you to process your emotions and gain clarity.
Engage in a Hobby
Find an activity that you enjoy and immerse yourself in it. Whether it’s gardening, reading, cooking, or any other hobby, it can help take your mind off stress and provide a refreshing mental break.
Play Games
Games, whether solo puzzles or group activities, can be a great way to engage your mind and body. Choose what appeals to you, from board games to physical sports, and have fun.
Prioritize Fun Activities
Make time for leisure activities that bring you joy. Regularly scheduling fun can help you manage stress and improve overall well-being.
Consider Massage Therapy
Massage therapy can deeply relax your muscles and reduce stress. Seek out a qualified therapist to experience the full benefits of a therapeutic massage.
Take High-Quality Supplements
If you’re not getting all the nutrients you need from your diet, consider supplements to support your body’s stress response. Ensure you’re getting essential vitamins like B-complex, C, D3, calcium, and antioxidants.
Change Your Environment
Sometimes, a change of scenery can work wonders. Whether it’s a short walk, a weekend getaway, or a longer vacation, stepping away can help you clear your mind and gain a new perspective.

4 Step Plan to combat stress

Identify Your Stressors: Reflect on the specific types of stress that are affecting your life. Determine whether they are related to work, relationships, health, or other areas.
Develop an Action Plan: Choose specific strategies to either eliminate these stressors or manage their impact more effectively. Focus on actions that align with your lifestyle and personal needs.
Implement and Evaluate: Practice these strategies consistently over a period of 1-2 weeks. Observe which approaches are most effective in reducing your stress and fit well with your daily routine.
Adjust as Needed: Modify, replace, or remove any habits or strategies that are not yielding desired results. Continually refine your approach to create sustainable, stress-reducing practices.

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